(((Scott)))
I respect that you feel the need to spend time with your dad.
Try to limit it.
Try not to get dragged down too much.
But, please know,
As much as my mom could drag me down for the last 2 1/2 years of her life,
Filled with pain and illness,
I miss her terribly now that she's gone.
Perhaps when he comes over,
You could have some activity planned.
Like a movie. Or organizing the family photos.
Or something that would keep him busy
So he's not such a drag.
cuz, it's probably just habbit with him now,
And he doesn't even realize it.
I wish you well, friend.
Shalom!