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My suggestion to sponsees isn't to wait a specific length of time before getting involved with someone else, but to postpone it until formal step work is done. If we don't get right with our HP, get right with ourselves, and learn how to get right with other folks, we're just taking the same old addict into something new.
I don't know about you, but if the point is to deal with these character defects that make me toxic not only to myself but to other people, getting involved before I've taken the steps is just a pre-meditated entry on my fourth step list.
Peace & Love,
Sugah
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There's a train leaving nightly called when all is said and done
Keep me in your heart for awhile
~WZ
ANS 01/29/86 - 08/04/08
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