[splendra]

Ah yeas! Meeting someone that feels like you have known them all your life the"familiar" I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole myself. Yea it feels so good almost like a relief but be careful cause that could very well mean that you are trying to step back into the abyss.

I believe someone new to recovery needs a lot of time before starting a new "love" relationship. Dating while "new' to recovery is a very good way to get drawn back into addiction even "love" addiction. So be very careful.

Many people have found these types of connection in recovery are really about the issues that have not yet been resolved.

At the other persons stage in recovery I would say she is looking for a way back to the abyss do you want to go with her? Maybe you are obsessing a little bit about this person? Yes? Give her a year see what happens then.