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As an addict in long-term recovery, and as an addict who was a master manipulator in her active addiction and made damned sure she had her enablers in place, I ask you, how many more years of your life do you want to go through this?
He's been to rehab 'about' 10 times. Hon, he's been given the tools to get clean and stay clean.
He chooses not do so.
What you choose to do with your life will determine whether you continue the dance of insanity with the addict or not.
If you do choose to terminate the relationship, I highly recommend you get some counseling to dig deep and find out why you walked into this relationship knowing fully good and well that he was an addict. Then decide if you're willing to make the changes within yourself to not make that choice again. Take it from a gal who's been there. Till we do that, we repeat the same pattern over and over with different men.
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DeVon & the Zoo Crew  Worry is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained. ~Arthur Somers Roche
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