[nandm]

I think I understand what you are saying Matt. Personally I too feel bad for people who miss out on getting to know someone because they have so much fear that they judge the book by its cover rather than get to know the person and then decide if they are someone worth knowing. What I find amazing is I have had people who were my "friends" for years that suddenly quit talking to me once they found out I was gay. Why should who I love matter to anyone. I am the same person I was before they found out I am gay so what changed? Their fears is what changed..