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Want to add my welcome here too.... Glad to meet you and looking forward to getting to know you better.
For me quacking is many things.... its when my ex AH would threaten me ... the same old threats that he would never be able to follow through with ... or when he would spend the evening going over all that was wrong with me .... to keep the focus off himself and me on the defensive....
What it all comes down to for me .... if it is not true, loving and constructive... I just dont need to give it my attention. I have too many other good things in life to focus on.
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Cynay
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
Harvey Fierstein
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