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veryrestless722 · 03-10-2009, 07:01 PM

my son is only 4 months but im having to slowly face facts that where his father is concerned i cant always protect him the way i want to, i wanted full custody and no visitations, but florida is a two parent state, so ive had to readjust my thinking and now im trying to work with my husband to let him see my son, of course he doesnt seem that interested so i may end up with full custody anyways, but i know how you feel, the constant back and forth, thinking just maybe i should keep trying , should i give up or keep trying , all it takes is a little hope from them and you start the cycle right back over again, its pure hell sometimes, im sorry that your daughter is going to live with him, but it may be an eye opener for her, sometimes people have to learn by experiance, i can only imagine how hard that is for you, i would flip out if my son had to go live with my husband

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veryrestless722 Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: florida Posts: 269	my son is only 4 months but im having to slowly face facts that where his father is concerned i cant always protect him the way i want to, i wanted full custody and no visitations, but florida is a two parent state, so ive had to readjust my thinking and now im trying to work with my husband to let him see my son, of course he doesnt seem that interested so i may end up with full custody anyways, but i know how you feel, the constant back and forth, thinking just maybe i should keep trying , should i give up or keep trying , all it takes is a little hope from them and you start the cycle right back over again, its pure hell sometimes, im sorry that your daughter is going to live with him, but it may be an eye opener for her, sometimes people have to learn by experiance, i can only imagine how hard that is for you, i would flip out if my son had to go live with my husband __________________ You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.