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congrats on the baby, mine is now 4 months old, they really do change your life and your perspective on things dont they
my husband is not really invovled in his life yet either, i had no contact with him for 3 months and just recently got back into contact , he is still in rehab and says he wants to see the baby but im waiting on the effort from him to truly do what he says, he wants me to stop the divorce, i get where you are and how hard it is to let go, hes back in my life but i dont know in what way yet or if he really will be a father, but im focusing on myself, if he wants to straighten up and be a family he knows where i am , im not making the effort for him, just like with yours, you cant force them to see what a child means, they either learn it on their own or not at all , i sometimes wonder if he wants me to stop divorce proceedings just so he wont have court ordered visitations and can call when he feels like it to see the baby, i dont know
glad to hear things are good for you
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