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I can honestly say that I would drive myself crazy if I tried to make sense of my XABF's thought processes and decisions. The sad truth is that, sober or not, his head is clouded. He is unable to process the past and present and unsuccessfully tries to forecast the future.
On that note, you, too, will drive yourself crazy if you try to make sense of your XABF's mind. Acceptance of this fact is not easy or pleasant.
I sometimes find it helpful to just think of one instance that showcases these facts in order to remind myself that he is not healthy, rational, or normal. I have found that I tried to make the most sense of him when I began to think of him as healthy, rational, or normal.
Orviske, I am glad that you are making healthy decisions for you and your daughter, and I hope you continue to do so.
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