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Old 03-09-2009, 08:47 AM   #2 (permalink)
JenT1968
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I can't force him to take interest. I can't force him to love her or us.
no, you can't.

You know what he is missing out on because you are wrapped in the joy that is your child, he has no desire to find the time to experience that. Can you imagine? There are many things that I can't fathom in this world but that one is way high on my list.

But that is his hard luck frankly.

Doesn't seem like you (or your beautiful child) get much physically, financially or emotionally from keeping in contact with him. Why is it so hard to just let go? I don't know, I wish it were as easy as saying the words. For me, I have had to look at some of my beliefs about myself, others, parenting, love and relationships in general to see just why I become embedded in and then return to toxic relationships.....

This site has been a font of wonderful knowledge. glad to see you here:ghug
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