Oh gosh, I would be so happy if someone cleaned my room.
I hope you don't worry yourself to much. Those tantrums will
go a lot farther and farther for him when he sees that they
work on you.
When he gets no distance from them, when they stop working,
there is probably less of a chance he will use them.
I have a question, not one you have to answer of course, but
if he is 18...... not taking his meds, not cleaning his room,
inviting rats to nest, scaring your daughter enough to cry,
keeping you up to worry all night, and smoking pot,
how come you are allowing him to live with you?
Alot of the times in the midst of illness and adddiction
we don't change unless we are made to change.
JMO~
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