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You have a lot on your plate. But first remember, it is not your fault. She has to want it for herself, not you or her kids. Unfortunately you may have to let her go. If all enabeling stops she will have to face her situation.
PLEASE SEEK OUT Alanon! For yourself. Be supportive but not enabeling, alanon will help you understand more. If you are not an alcoholic you cannot understand what the alcoholic thinks or does. Alcohol is nondicriminatory, alcholism affects all races, creeds, education level and social level.
I am sorry you are going through this but more sorry for your sister. I am her. If I can do it she can too but she has to hit bottum and want it. That is what it took for me.
You didnt cause it and you cant cure it.
Seek out alanon=Please!
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