well fubar,
most peoples lives around here seem to change when they take a look at the past and how their behaviors have been effected by others and lead to behaviors on our part..the tangled mess if looked at closely can help me to detach from some of the actions that are not leading me in a positivedirecteion and hurt those around us (step 4) steps 7/8 seem to deal with getting my head in a space to start making those changes in my behavior and steps 8/9 help me to begin to correct those things I can about the past, to show some appreciation for past relationships and start some healing. Then 10/11/12 are really about learning to track myself daily and in tense moments...check my actions and where they come from are they appropriete...what can i / should i do different...
Helps me to see my relationshp tothe world around me and how to have more meaningful and haromonious relationships..
again brief as i am working
I don't know it justseems like it has hugely helped me...as poorly as i still deal with life and things...you should have seen the mess i was 20 years ago
windy seems from the outside to have changed over time....but i don't know him well (grin)...don't drink no matter what seems to put enough presure on me to force me to change