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Old 03-02-2009, 05:22 PM
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notwholeyet
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Brantford, Ontario, Canada
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I am new to this board. I found out about it from the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery board. I am trying to get over a very difficult relationship with a narcissistic alcoholic. Also former drug user. The narcissism is difficult enough to deal with, but when alcohol is added to the mix, it becomes hell on earth. The funny thing is, I still love the xA(N)bf. I'm in NC right now. Have been for 2 weeks. AGAIN. He comes to my door eventually with the "I'm sorry. I'll never drink again. I'll be a lot nicer. I'll change etc. etc." Narcissists do the same as alcoholics but at least alcoholics CAN be helped the Narcissist CAN'T. EVER. It is a permanent personality disorder with little or no hope of ever being cured or "fixed". That's the hardest part. Even if he gave up the drinking, which he doesn't want to, he would still be an N forever.

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