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Old 03-02-2009, 09:46 AM
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Pajarito
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Hi Stlll Waters- Interesting stuff. I also looked up things about this topic, because I wondered if STBXAH has the same issue. He may fit into the Borderline Personality Disorder frame as well. . . But, what's the point? We all want answers- WHY is he like he is? It's the age-old question- Is it the alcohol or the personality? To me, it doesn't matter anymore. My STBXAH is many things, many hard-to-live-with things, but I'm trying now to put more of the focus on me. Who am I, and what do I want to be? It's hard to do. I spent many years trying to figure him out and be for him what I thought he wanted me to be. It's so much more productive to figure out what I want. Now that you have this info- what are you going to do with it?
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