Doorknob,
I have found one has to word things very carefully around here! I am so glad the AA meetings I go to there is a much kinder gentler crowd..I mean most of the people on here are nice, but some just seem to find anything in your words to pick apart.
I'm considering not posting anymore, as I, like most alcoholics, am 'sensitive to the extreme' and personally, I hate being misunderstood and judged in a negative way! By the way what is a hoopdi??? lol..is that a hyundai?