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Hello from across the pond. The steps are the answer to the drink problem. It is ok to have questions about them. I look at defects as instincts which have far exceeded their true purpose. It allows me to look at them more objectively, without getting into that whole "what me? defects???? I don't think so!" ( by the way, I learned that obstinacy is a defect). A question, have you read the Big Book???? Page 64 talks about the 4th step at length. YOu are not jumping the gun by wanting to get started on the steps, you are gambling with your sobriety by not starting the steps.
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