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Sounds liek he is considering you ana annoyance in his early sobriety and he resents you for being there. You need to have a talk to him and he needs to talk to his counseller about why he is feeling this towards you. This is just my opinion but this may be because you were there when he was using and drinking and he cannot reconcile why you did not help him more in his mind and if you could not help him back then and he had to do the recovery bit by himself why should you be there now? Of course having someone around is better than having no-one or so we all think in lots of different situations, not just addicition, so you need to do something for you and it may be worth checking out the family and friends section on SR:-)
C**t i have probably used that about a dozen times in earhsot of my exgf, probably a few aimed at her but in a different room then complete remource and saying sorry i should not have used that word. It's a very bad word for a man to use directly to a woman and any man knows this, no exceptions.
Of course it is verbal abuse there is no worse word he can be using!! If he is not apologising staright after using that sort of language at you it doesn't look exactly rosy for the future IMO.
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