| Verbal abuse....
Hi all! Its been a while since I have posted. My husband has got his drug and achohol problems in check for the time and is in councilling. I just cannot deal with his moods. He is so verbally abusive at random times. While I know its not nice to name call, at least while its done in an argument you know it is in anger and an apology usually follows. However, mean comments while getting along is so hurtful. We rarely argue and when we do it is usually while he is using weed or drinking which he hasnt been. Here is my drama. We are going to an out of town concert next month and I was on the phone for quite a while booking a hotel room when he loudly tells me to be quiet. Then he tells me he has to leave the room. I asked him what was wrong and he said Iwas soo annoying that he had to leave the room. He couldnt listen to me anymore and I was acting like a highschooler talking on the phone. I felt deflated, embarassed and angry. I was trying to find hotels that are pet friendly and decent and near the concert. I wasnt gossiping or talking about Brad Pitt! This isnt the first time he has told me I was annoying so it really hurts. This is just tonights words and it is minor compared to other things he says to me.He calls me the C word when I havent even really done anything to deserve words that harsh. I told him he was being selfish about something and he called me a C. Anyways, I think that because we were getting along so well today and I was excited about making these plans that I am feeling sensitive to his words. Is this even verbal abuse? Thanks for letting me vent.
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