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Hi there
IMO sobriety is all about you, the most important thing in your life is being sober and to keep working on yourself to improve your life. Isn't it great the options that suddenly appear lol it is crazy, all the things we thought we had to do and now don't, all the things we thought we could not do, and now can!
There is nothing or noone i would not give up to remain sober.
I hope you appreciate the restrain in my post:-) I did not say kick it to the kerb or take it down to market once!
Seriously though put up with it for a bit longer, then kick her out IMO. The problem is you will always have the baggage of when you were drinking as opposed to finding someone who knows you as a non drinker from the start. Also you probably were attracted to her through your old drunk brain and you will be looking for aomething else now.
Who knows you may be posting in 5 years saying you were glad that you did not split up as you went through this together and now have a really happy life together?! This is one for you and i wish you all the best!
But stop taking crap from her, hey?!
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