"tell me how that works for ya"
It looks to me like this is one of those times when you have to be more mature than your sponsor.
Your sponsor is 'categorizing' you and failing to see you as an individual, and is she possibly acting out on some control issues?
I learned pretty quickly that my sponsor was in the program for a reason. Sponsors have their 'moments', lol.
So... next time you talk to her.... tell her how that works for ya.
