Isaiah
sounds like you are headed in the right direction with the group conscience.We are more powerful than I.The group comes together in Unity sometimes when these things happen.
If you said something to him,he may think you was mad at him,if the group said something,he can`t say much about that.
Also,name calling will get us on your back if you call someone names in a meeting here,it is unacceptable.You might want to bring the name calling up in a group conscience meeting too.You cannot shame a alcoholic sober.That kind of behavior is immature.
We have a 30 yr dude like that here except he just goes to one group.He "rules it with a fist of iron" we say.The membership is on the decline too.
might want to pray for him and yourself also in the meantime and seek God1`s will,because it sounds to me like you may a tad bit irked at him.
Right?