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there are often times resentments where harm was done to the person taking the inventory through no fault of their own. For instance a child who was abused or abandoned, or a rape victim perhaps. The challenge is getting to the
4th column. But it must be done to quit being a victim. Here's my best example. My biological father split when I was 3 months old.(1st and second column) effected pride, self esteem, personal relations ( 3rd column) Setting aside the other person entirely where was I wrong? Well, this was tough, how could I possibly have any part in this, I mean after all I'm the victim. But wait, who carried the resentment for all this time. Who carried a resentment toward someone who isn't even on the planet anymore? I did. That was what got me to the 4th column. The harm I did was to myself and the wrong was carrying the resentment.
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