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First of all....way to go!
Just a thought...take what you want and leave the rest.
My XAH fit the mold of some of the guys represented in the Lundy Bancroft book. Manipulative, intelligent, narcissistic, unethical and will do just about anything to get what he wants etc... I know my X-husband will and has used my own ideas against me to play me like a fool.
My thought to myself when I read you were going to let him read your marked up copy of that book is you are giving him a lot of ammo and a window right into your soul.
My idea for my XAH is if he wants to get healthy he needs to do it on his own without my help at all. I want the real thing, not a guy pretending to do what I want. KWIM?
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