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Old 01-12-2009, 02:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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The reason it was rough because after almost 3 years of torture, I had finally had enough.

After driving across the state (and back) in a raging snow storm (9 hours), I came home to the same old same old.
Redd, one question, if living in that house with that woman is SUCH TORTURE as you put it, why on earth do YOU keep going back??????? it's been asked here before, what do YOU get out of this? when you walk in there, and there she is in all her glory, drunk, again, with a reliability factor of nearly 100%, what goes on inside you? what's the payoff?

now it's not just SHE who is lost control, but you as well. raging AT her is almost justfiable, but your daughter was caught in the crossfire. how awful that must have been for her. anger is as progressive as addiction, it feeds on itself, it takes on a life of it's own. what's gonna happen next time? this has progressed from a very sad situation to a very volatile and dangerous one......
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