Based on your info I would probably advise against this. It sounds like she carries baggage regardless of whether she's drunk or sober. I'm not saying having baggage is necessarily a bad thing; we all have it in some form or fashion. But, one's baggage shouldn't be pushed onto others, as it sounds like she does to you. I'd say unless she's willing to change mentally/emotionally, and ease up on you; I woudn't go for it. At this point it sounds like all that's going for you in this is that she is attractive. Good looks are good but you need a good personality to.