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Welcome to SR! My husband was a good man a very good at being a "functioning" Alcoholic. But one day something bad happened, he drove our 15yr old daughter when he should have never been behind the wheel, she was so frightened. I threw him out that very day, I was a stay home Mom, had no income but I did it any way. I feared for my children, I found this web site and was dirrected to Allanon, and now 3yrs later I am at peace with my decision. I'm not saying leaving is or was the right choice, many have stayed and found peace with that as well.I can tell how much you love your husband and how much you want him to get help, but you will have to wait for him to make that decision for himself.
But I think Allanon is a great place to help guide you so that you can find peace.
Good luck, and again welcome.
Kermmie
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