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She knows you will support her if and when she is ready. You have probably told her a million times during your relationship. For now, "let her go". She needs to fall and fall hard. If she contacts you, then you can decide how you want to handle it...set some boundaries that work for you. You will talk to her is she's not "high" that day or is coherent. You will only talk to her if she gets treatment? These are things you need to figure out. A long time Alanon gave me this prayer to say every morning when I think about my ex and wonder the same things you do? "Help me love (her name), as you would have me love her. Help me understand (her name), as you would have me understand her. And help me be a friend to (her name), as you would have me be a friend to her."
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