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Hi there Mr. Hopeful,
Without addiction being in the picture I would say to STAY AWAY- if you are initiating contact, and she hardly responds????? What does that tell you?
Now add addiction to the pot of soup?? URGH- what an aweful mix.
Why on gods green earth would you pursue someone who isn't pursueing you- and who on top of it has a drug problem spiraling out of control?
Are you the guy with the superman cape in the closet - (that no one is looking for??)
Please- you are probably a very generous, well intended, sweet, kind man, who would be wonderful in a relationship- if your intentions were to 'give' and NOT to 'rescue'.
You've gone since July- keep going it solo- do some work here- and get to a book store and read some co-dependant literature.
Perhaps by this July - you could find yourself on your own way to becomming healthy- and sitting on a beach with someone who is worth expelling this kind of energy on.
OR better yet- maybe you'll find some inner peace and contentment, where you will enjoy the freedom of takeing care of you and NOT operating a crisis center in your love life.
Hope you know- i'm not meaning to sound harsh- perhaps re-read your own words and look at what you are asking.
Look at your own issues, and try to find peace within healing YOU.
Take care,
Cessy
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