[greeteachday]

Welcome - I'm sorry you are hurting. Ann's point about drawing you in is well worth pondering. While you cannot control her addiction, you can control your actions. Unfortunately we, the ones who love addicts, get sucked in and become as sick as they are in our own way.

I too found coming here, posting and reading and going to face to face Naranon meetings to make all the difference in the world. I hope you will give it a try!