Brobo, welcome. You might want to try posting in the Newcomers thread, it's a bit more active. I just happened upon your post a bit accidentally. Come join us, you'll get LOTS of support!!
(go to main forum page, the newcomers to recovery section)
My husband is the same way. He thinks I have complete control and power over alcohol, and it confuses him why I can't just enjoy a few beers with him and STOP. I have to resign myself to that fact right now and just work on me, the rest will fall in place the way it should. Hopefully in the end he'll get to know the real me, and fall in love with the idea of my sobriety like he feels about me
