[LaTeeDa]

I'm going to be blunt here. Your whole plan is based on getting him to change. That's not a plan. He will either change or not, regardless of how many people you talk to about him, how many people you ask to talk to him, how many times you talk to him.

I had to learn to take action in my own best interests. I had to learn to accept the way things were. I had to assume that he was going to be the way he was going to be. Then what? If he never changes, and in fact keeps getting worse, what are YOU going to do for YOU?

I second the suggestion about looking into a restraining order. If you can get him out of the house, you will not have to worry about rent. He will do what he will do, under the same roof or not. You do not have the power to save him from himself. You do have the power to save yourself. I hope you realize it before it's too late.

L