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I am very sad for my loss of the dream but I also like to think that when he gets home drunk as hell, I am not there to listen his hurtful words.
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Oh Amen Sister! No hurtful words, no looks of disgust, no snippy a$$ attitude - you know the drill.
You know what works for me sometimes? As soon as I get that "melancholy" feeling of "oh remember when...." (usually a thought of his "sweet" side) I follow that thought immediately with "yeah but, remember when...." (always a thought about his a$$hole/hurtful side).