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Well, Randy took one step toward enforcing his boundaries today. Today would have been Day 4 but our friend slipped. The one bonus is that he actually admits it when he slips. At least I think that's a bonus rather than us having to 'find out.' So Randy said he couldn't be near him when he was like that and left. Go Randy!!!
As for me, I could tell as soon as we spoke that he was high. When he actually admitted it, I got kind of quiet. I didn't ask for answers, just politely kept up the conversation. He knows we're both disappointed. When he said he had to go, I didn't say anything but 'Okay, talk to you later,' and we hung up. I think that's a huge step for me as before I would have asked a million and one questions and tried to make him 'understand' what he was doing. Today I just told him that it's his business if he wants to throw his money away on rehab because when they test him and find out he's using anything, he's out of the program.
I'm really, truly disappointed right now.
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