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Originally Posted by Flame  You have nailed that one on the head!!! I am learning that one right quick! The trouble was previously that I didn't realize he was an addict so any arguments that seemed ridiculous actually WERE (he's even said that to me about our fights). Now that I know, it's a little easier to back away and hang up or whatever. |
Flame, Something else that I do that has been so helpful with me in dealing with my addict is that I do not communicate with my AH at all if he is high..
When My AH gets high, I leave the house or I find something constructive to do with my time.. I don't talk to him, sit in the same room with him and I certainly do not try to reason with him.. I used to get mad but now I just do my own thing... it has made things so much easier for me..