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Have you been to Alanon? Therapy? I loved the idea of a life-long partner, too. But when you dreamed of your future husband one day, did you EVER dream of having an alcoholic, drug addict husband?
I didn't, but when the dream didn't pan out, I kept on trying to mold him into something he wasn't. How insane was that?
__________________ "Get busy living or get busy dying." --Shawshank Redemption
"Do I want to live while I'm alive and embrace what sustains me or do I want to die while I'm alive and embrace what destroys me?--Geneen Roth
"The bare minimum my partner needs to give me is 100%."--Wpgwoman |