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Thanks TTOSBT. Unfortunately we will be travelling to our country property (7 hours away) and had planned to stop for Christmas dinner and overnight at my sister's place on the way, so I can't really go without him. The other complication is that HIS mother will be joining us for a week at our property in the new year, so I kinda feel like "Why should you get to see your family at Christmas if I have to miss out on seeing mine because of your behaviour?" We would ALL be more comfortable of course if he wasn't there, but I have spoken to my sister and she says she will warn everyone not to mention the bike rally. Horrible isn't it? We usually spend all our time alone 'cause there's just nowhere left I can take him for fear of embarrassing scenes - we've been banned from half a dozen pubs in Sydney, wouldn't dare go out to a restaurant, wouldn't dream of inviting him to a work function, won't let him babysit the grandkids, etc, etc. But I'm sure everyone on this site can relate to all that!
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