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For me faith, it's all about boundaries. I believe that the foundation of a healthy relationship is having and enforcing boundaries. This protects me. It can also prevent others from hurting themselves by using me to do so.
I have a book that I read over and over and over. It's the most helpful book I have ever read in my life. It sums up everything I need to do to protect myself from others.
Boundaries: When to say yes, how to say no to take control of your life By Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
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The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. Ben Stein |