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Old 11-27-2008, 08:08 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by genrs123 View Post
yes, i wanted to him to say that he still loved me or cared about me too. i cant help it. im not over him. it hurts to think hes over me. actually it devestates me.
Just by replying to the email you are telling him you still love him or are interested in whatever he has to say or where he is at. He is NOT over you if he were you would be a distant thought. He would not take the effort to send you an email. He was letting you know that it bothered him that you couldnt talk to him.

I understand the desire of you wanting to hear him say those things. I really do. I would like to hear them from my ex (except with all the feeling and emotion he used to have).

I believe that the reason he sent you the email was to see if he could reel you in again. That simple. And he did. By you telling him that he is still a weakness for you you are letting him know that the door is still open. Call it crazy but thats the impression I got from what I read.

Be strong this too shall pass.........
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