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Hi Lee,
I'm not from the US either but I know we can get a court order in Canada but what's the point? He doesn't respect us, the hospital, the ambulance driver or the cops....so what would change? He'd come anyway, and I'm not being negative, just realistic.
He called tonite and asked his son to wait tonite for a call because someone would phone us to help with his moving his things....we said we had not planned on staying next to the phone all nite but it was expected... from him.
Am I a "normie" compared to you? I've seen others post this term and it feels strange, as if alcohol and drugs were the only things that make people "ab-normie".
I'd really like to get away from all this. We are getting married this June and all my futur-husband is thinking about is whether or not his Dad will show up, and in what state, in front of 25 friends....
Ah sh___, sorry. Things could be worse. But I'm convinced about changing the # and the mail address, but my husband still has a way to go. His mom died 8 years ago (of diabetes), and he's an only child (who also has diabetes, imagine the effects these past months), so the bond with his Dad is hard to sever. I respect this, but am still afraid of the consequences.
You know, I found this site when I was looking for a helping hand, and boy did I find the right place. Everyone here has a story, has been thru it, has endured enough, or has battled with demons...
It feels good to share. Now I just have to convince my husband (futur) that other people do exist that have been thru this.
We have unplugged the phone, as it has not stopped ringing since 21h30.
Good nite and thanks
Natkim-who-is-trying-to-understand
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