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Old 11-20-2008, 10:41 AM   #11 (permalink)
denny57
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I am one of the happiest people I know. I managed to be happy through most of my marriage, even when times were miserable. I look back now and think it's part of what kept me stuck - I tended to (and still do) take the position life is good.

That was an easy attitude to maintain in the beginning. As the disease progressed and the abuse became worse, not so easy. I am not addicted to misery, but I sure became miserable and did not see a way out.

I spent the weekend with some friends up in the mountains. Someone said to me "it's nice to have happy Denny back."

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