As I'm replying to the attorney's email in regards to the situation with the X......he calls, all chipper and happy and with a meager proposition for Thanksgiving. I totally stood up to him, told him I no longer have to suffer the consequences of his choices and that he needs to do the right thing. He wasn't very happy and now I feel guilty. This in regards (by the way to my son spending some of Thanksgiving with me after the X telling me he made plans already, sheesh!!!!!)
I shouldn't feel guilty. I asked this man for YEARS while we were married to find time for us as a family, to PLEASE find a way to spend the holidays with us and for that matter just family time in general.
Now I get this passive aggressive stuff from him "fine, I'll drop him (our son) off Wednesday and get him Sunday!" ME: "Don't you want to take him to your mom's for dinner?" HIM: "What's the point?" ME:"Well, since you just threw it out there that it's so important because this is the first Thanksgiving you have off............" What to do? Ends up the poor guy is working on Thanksgiving anyway.
He's not a horrible guy but I don't think his noggin has always been screwed on properly. Some of his ideas come from way out in left field and then when his mother gets involved??? Forget it, it's a nightmare!!!!!
I'm sitting here feeling guilty and I shouldn't. What's wrong with me??????
