Thanks Tryin. Yup, I do think we are all in the same page. Bernadette, I am sorry, I was not really thinking of you or your post when I said that, I was responding to Tarheel's post.
I completely agree with you that I need support from other alcoholics for my recovery. I am VERY active in AA and sometimes I don't know what I would do without my sponsor. And yes, sometimes the best thing my husband can say is "Have you called your sponsor? Shouldn't you get to a meeting?"
I just would never want my husband or friend's to feel like I do not want or need their help, ya know? Ago said it VERY well in regards to what roles different people play in my recovery.
Peace & Love.