The last time my XABF asked me to bond him out of jail, he had his mom call me (she was the only one who would accept collect calls). I adored his mom, and she adored me. She said he wanted me to come pick him up...I was cool with that. Then she said he needed $250 and I said "oh, no!!" I told her why and she totally understood.
Next thing I know I get a 3-way call from him (she stayed out of it). When I told him I was NOT bailing him out, he gave me all these excuses of why he needed to get out. I told him "no" again.
He then says "well, okay...I'm just an addict..just toss me to the curb".
My anger got the best of me. I told him "yeah, well I'm an addict, too, but I don't use anymore...I have a job, I have a life, so don't throw that BS at ME!"
I didn't hear from him for a long, long time
Hugs and prayers!
Amy