[Celebration1994]

My sponsor died of a brain anuerisom over a year ago. I don't know if I am complicating this or just being fussy, but I am really having a tuff time finding a sponsor. I do identify with quite a few women, but wow so far most are going through their own stuff and I don't want to get caught up in that....have enough with my sponsees. I have been using AA and bringing up my stuff at the tables and talking on the phone a bit. One woman I was going to ask, I called, and she started on all the stuff she was going through and ended up asking me to be her sponsor. I have been reading the BB and of course I know it does not mention having a sponsor. I now find this as a reason to not look for one, and rely on my sober friends and the meetings, and my HP. Maybe I will wait a bit and listen some more....any opinions on this plz.

sober since 6/10/1994