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Woodtick,
Well I guess dating isn't the problem then, I may have just taken your post the wrong way. It doesn't sound like it is you at all. You may want to take more time in your searching. I still think that keeping options open is better. If the physical relationship starts to get your emotions and hormones over worked you may want to put that off for a committed relationship, and just keep dating till you find someone you really like and get with outside the physical relationship.
As far as marriages go, I have friends who have divorced, some who are in horrible relationships, and some who are happy. It's a two way street. But you sound like you are you. If there was an easy way to define a good healthy, fits all, relationship, there would be a book on it. On top of that people do change, so it gets rougher as time goes on. Some people just become incompatible as time goes on.
I look for my someone that I can call my best friend first, lover second. I need both, but one is more important than the other in the long run.
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