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Old 09-30-2008, 09:04 AM   #8 (permalink)
neecey1224
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Originally Posted by AmpHusky View Post
The advice I keep get on this board, and from friends at work, is quit answering the phone. He is a big boy, don't even take him his meds. I hate to say it, but he can take care of himself. He just won't do it.
I got two phone calls from him this morning asking when I was going to take him off my insurance. He was trying to get medical services - get his meds for free, etc. - but since we are married and he is on my insurance, he doesn't qualify for the assistance. And, of course, state law forbids me to remove him from my insurance until we are divorced. So it appears he is trying to line up his needs, he just doesn't qualify because we are married. Therefore, I will continue to bring him his meds, as there is no hope for anything without his meds.

I would quit answering the phone if chaos and insanity occurred in the phone calls, but so far it is not, and so I will keep the communication open at this time.
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