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hi!!
I totally see what you are saying!! I came into this program for help, what i was doing in my life was not working for me anymore. I had heard of the program that worked for others so I wanted to see if it worked for me too!! The first thing I was told to do was to relate to others and not compare, just because maybe I hadn't had certain situations happen to me didnt mean that I could not relate to the feelings. Also I had to keep and open mind and not question things, as so many people in AA say "my best thinking got me here" it was annoying to hear all the time but hey it was the truth!! I had to think of the things I did while drinking that I prolly should have questioned but did not and here is a program of recovery offering a solution to drinking, why start questioning things now?? hahaha... unless I am looking for a way out? that was the only time i found myself questioning things right before my relapse!! I hope that is not the case for you!!!
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