Widetrak, you and I are in exactly the same boat. I also have a wife who is slowly driving me crazy if I'm not careful. She often either mis-interprets what I say or even mis-remembers words and events. Tonight she said she 'wasn't doing anything she shouldn't', but I turned in early with the TV, and she has ended up passed out on our bed an hour later. Just keep loving your wife but also keep loving yourself - we can't change our spouses but we can choose our response to them. I haven't made it to Al-Anon yet but I'm determined to go next week to start to look after me.