I THINK YOU GUYS ROCK!!!! dancinggirl, I feel the same way about family. We had a big discussion last night at our Aftercare group because one other girl was having "mom" issues. My recovery does come first before anyone else, otherwise I know I'm NO GOOD!!!!!
NOMOMER et al, we're not "breaking up" just yet, LOL!!!! But she said she doesn't feel like she's helping me and I just CANNOT swallow sitting down and writing my mom a letter you know???? My kids, ABSOLUTELY!!!! and as well, there are several others, not a lot (which is also an issue with her, I just didn't do a lot of bad things..........not saying I'm better than anyone, ya know??) but my mom??
DSodaNOw, I liked what you had to say about the amends as well. I think some of us need to probably go back as I'm sure I may as well but when I'm ready. I want to go slow and not get myself into a major emotional fight with myself over it. It just doesn't seem right????
Anyway, I have to say that I think everyone here is such great support and has awesome feedback!!! I can't remember who dragged me over here from another site but I have to go back over there and see if i can find her screen name there, come back over here and THANK HER!!!!!
Thanks you guys!!!!
